Wednesday, February 11, 2009

tHE ExchagE

Can all of you realise the difference of our relationship when we were at part 1 and now (part2)? Ok, this is my question and I want you to think first before go through this article...
So, for this time, I would like to bring you to think about the relationship among us. Are you still remembering on how each of us behaves when we were at the baby stage (part 1)?
Ok, just straight to the point. Lets we check on every side of angel. Start with us ourselves. Of course all of us were felt so strange when the first time came to dais 1a, right? New environment as well as the new friends was made us to behave like that. By the way, guys, it is very simple as ABC. The person who was very friendly will make easy to attract his or her new clique. While those who is very quiet of course will accompany with the wall (like me). At that time class was very bored, right!!. And I think there was not much relationship between boys and girls (correct me if I’m wrong) what make me to say like that is due to the obvious reason- the boys will always sat at the back as one group, like do not willing to separate even one second (opps.., sorry boys) while the girls like want to conquer the whole class (what do you think, girls?). In addition, I really believe that all of you know that there were some groups among us. I don’t want to mention it because I’m totally believed that all of you know about this.
And on 30.12.2008, we were come back to uitm Melaka as the part 2 students. Surprisingly, we were seeing many changes. Not only the development of uitm, but also among us. I’m, for my part; see that our class is more wonderful right now. The relationship between us also become better and better. They are also some of our members that can stand out of his or her group. And I think this blog also make us closer. However, if you not agree with my point of view, don’t forget to mention it in your comment. Before I end this article, I hope that we can be more uniting in the future. Be more generous in helping among us in order to achieve our dreams. Last but not least, thanks to one of my member who was give me inspiration indirectly when we were study at the below of the library. Wassalam....

22 comments:

  1. salam.
    lilies, i agree with you.
    for me, i really like group together with boys rather than the girls coz they so funny and make me happy.
    but friends with the girls, i can share the problems to them.. they can help me but sometimes not. it is natural.
    for me, girls or boys is not important but loyalty, trust each other, kind and honest are more important to make a friend.
    is that true, lilies?

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  2. this article seems interesting..
    i think some of the groups in our class are really nice but some are not..sorry to say..=DD
    maybe some of the girls in our class did not made much effort in finding girl's friend..so they think being friends with the boys made them more happier..
    for the solution,i'm suggesting for us to hang out together but i don't know when coz we're a lil bit busy this semester right?
    so for those who have plan or suggestion for our hang out,please tell me..=]

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  3. Lilies, what an intereting topic to talk about.
    Yes, there are many friendships that have been made and it's far more stronger than last semester. I definitely know each of our classmates better now, which is a good thing. :)
    I'm just sad that some people prefer being friends with the boys only. Maybe they just didn't take the time to hang out with the girls. You'll see that the girls are also funny, loyal and etc.
    I just think that we should be friends or at least be nice with everyone no matter if we like them or not. We're all gonna be in the same class until Part 6 right. :)
    Sorry if I offended anyone. It is unintentional.

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  5. assalamualaikum...

    i think boy just didn't take the time to hang out with the girl..

    i hope the relationship between boy and girl become better and better next time..:-)

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  6. assalamualaikum...

    hye lilies...

    i agree to three of them...some told that being friends with boys only can make they happier and some of them told that being friend with the girls can make laugh,funny and etc....

    lets us combine it together..means that we needs each other....even the easy time or vice versa...so we will enjoy our daily life with the good friends...

    friends are the most important to me...both.....girl and boy.....

    we can do it........

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  7. salam..
    i agred that this sem for our class relationshp bcme clsr..
    and between girls and guys obviously it still have a big gap between us..
    but i thnk its not just the boys side that dun want to hang out with girls but some girls did that too..
    dun take it as the wrng idea..
    i thnk maybe we were too shy to speak with guys..
    for me,i dun have a lot of guy friend so it kinda awkward for me..
    so, i hope with all of us have given out our opinion, our relationshp can bcme clsr..
    -peace-

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  8. holaA~

    iam very touching after read this article..
    yes,iam still remember my 1st time day in dais1a..
    eventhough boys is "bit" little than girl,but u did not know why we're always stick together..
    we're from same college,same level(except adi,heE)..
    our relationship is more better than u girl..
    we have a critical thinking like crazy people..
    u must 1st realize about it..
    about nana& the gang said,i had really2 dont understand..
    why u want the girl start 2 b yourfriend if u never talk to them..??
    u also can start it right..
    think carefully..
    [iam very proud to be 1st boy comment this article]

    dAa~

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  9. yeah...
    i also feel the same way..this sem are really thightened our bond....cehhh..>.<
    but there is a time that we feel like a stranger and still hesitated to talk to each other eventhough the relationship is getting closer...
    anyway, we got 4 sem left.....
    "the night is still young"
    XD

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  10. hot story.. we all are friend.. we should not fight who will start to be our friend. we are like a big family.. dont make it worst.. i am the one who always with the guys.. did you know why?? girls in our class separately by groups.. but i talk to others not only the guys.. hope all of you understand what i mean.. i just want to be one of your friends..

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  11. Assalamualaikum..

    yup i also still remember my 1st time attend to the class in part1.. it a bit stranger but now in part2 I feel better...
    now we still in process to know each
    order...
    and I agree that this blog
    make us become closer..
    maybe we need a time..
    Its ok I still dais2a friend..
    I apologise to boys and
    girls if I not to friendly
    in the class..
    I quiet shy..Aew. :)
    See ya..

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  12. hey guys.y not if we just unite among us..i know that there are many groups in our class.although too many groups,we are closer to each other 4 this sem right??keep up da great work.but don't u guys realise that we jez close during in the class and after the class all of us separate into our groups and making our own ways.y not if we spend some of our time 2gther??

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  13. my favourite post yet.
    not everyone can talk about this sensitive issue.
    hey, everybody has their own right to be in a group. its not a "sin" to be in a group. if u don't have a group, juz imagine, who r u going to be with when walking to class, walking back to college, go buy books, and all sort of stuff..? from here we'll see, that its IMPORTANT to have a group.
    but at the same time, dont be apart from the other classmates. we need to have a good relationship with everyone. so then, when we'll be given a group assignment with other group, we're not going to have a big problem to get along with them.
    yes, about the girls+boys group. its not wrong actually. but this group needs to maintain their boundary, as u know Islam really emphasizes the limit of "pergaulan" between male n female. as long as u didn't cross this line, it's ok. no touching hah.

    i have to admit it, i'm lucky to be in this class. as we're not like other class. there are no repeaters in this class, and we have full attendance almost everyday (with juz 1 @ 2 absent). i didn't agree of diyana's suggestion that we must hang out to make us closer. i heard there were many part 1 classes in last semester hung out to mahkota parade, mc, "mandi laut", etc..that turns out that many of them repeat some papers. we don't need the "hang out".

    i think PPKP is the best link for us to find our chemistry. ;p
    last, try to talk with everyone in the class n we can all be unite.

    thanx lilies.

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  14. hii,
    whoaa! what an interesting topic to write about. never thought of it until lilies' post.
    i think everyone has their own way of thinking about what's going on in our class.

    i agree that our class do have some groups but i dont think being in a group ruins the relationship among us. the formation of the group may be because of the college we live in or may be because we can really get along with them. so being in a group is just fun.

    on the other hand, i think i had more fun when i was in part 1 because we could still fool around but in part 2 we have to crack our brains out in order to get better results than last semester. but the bonding between friends is stronger than the last one.

    hmm i think that's all for now, sorry i didnt realize how long my comment is ;D

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  15. hey3.
    best topic wo~
    but i dont have much to comment.
    i like everyone in this class!
    even i dont know whether everyones like me or not.
    [do i care if u dont like me? n o p e!
    ahakz]

    i juz know that im hepi to be part of dais 2a.

    to all daish 2a student and of course my muchuk2 mish raihan,
    i love ya guys damn much!

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  16. owh.


    im just proud to be daish.
    sorie for shortage of idea to comment in this blog.
    =)

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  17. eylow..
    yaa.. i agree that we all now more closer than last sem...
    just one thing, i hope our friendship will ever lasting...

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  18. A'kum..

    I also realize that our class had changed this semester. But it doesn't matter because, it was positive changes.

    I still love this class, even though our class is not really unite.

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  19. assalamualaikum..

    i agree with izyan coz its just fun to have a group..its doesn't meaning that we don't want to be friends with others..(i think all of us just need more time )

    lastly,i just hope that our friendship will becomes much better from time to time..;)

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  20. assalamualaikum..
    don't know what to say..yes..there are a lot of things that change in ths semester 2..but tiya..you really3 can't say such that word..you also must make friends with the girls..it is not the guys that do not want to friend with the girls..but there is a few silly problem with us..
    thats all from me..wassalam..

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  21. sorry to say...
    from then until now..
    i hate to be here...
    sometimes,
    i can follow...
    but mostly,
    i cannot combined with surrounding...
    thankful,i have all of you as my friends...

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  22. sekum

    2nd sem..
    make we know each person in our class..

    we have another 4 more sem in the same class.
    i hope our relationship will be better and better in the future..

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