Friday, March 6, 2009

The ReaLity Of LiFe~

Today is my turn to send a blog. I’ve read this article from my senior and I found it interesting and I want to share it with all of you.
LUKMANUL HAKIM is known as a person who always gives advice and benefits through his words. He was a father who always reminds his son with wise advice.
One moment, he asked his son to follow him to go to the market. He rides a donkey while his son walks.
“How dare this old man, let his little son walks while he ride a donkey.” a voice came from a group of people.
“Dear son, did you hear what those people said?” asked Lukmanul Hakim.
“Yes father!” replied his son.
“Now you ride this donkey and let me pull It.” he said while he carries his son on the donkey.
“Did all of you see how could that child is? He let his father to pull that donkey while he is still young, this is unacceptable.” said the other group of people they met along the road.
“Did you hear what they said son?” asked Lukmanul Hakim to his son.
His son nodded.
“Now, why don’t you come down and let us both walks,” said Lukmanul Hakim.
A moment after that, they met the other group of people. “How dumb they pull that donkey. Donkey is to ride and not to pull,” said them.
“Did you hear that son?” asked him again.
“Yes father”
“In that case let both of us ride this donkey,”
After that, they hear some conversation came from the other group of people. “How inconsiderate both of them let that little donkey carries them!” they said.
Lukmanul Hakim then asked his son, “Did you hear what they said son?”
“Yes father,” he replied.
“So, let both of us carry this donkey,” said Lukmanul Hakim.
With a lot of effort both of them tied the donkey’s leg. Finally, they did it and carry the donkey. When all of the people pass by and saw them, all of them laugh at them.
“Ha! Ha! Ha! Hey! Look at those mad people carries that donkey!”
“Did you hear what they said son?” asked Lukmanul again.
“Yes” replied his son.
Then, they let the donkey down. He explained to his son what had just happen.
“Son, that’s human nature. No matter what you did, you will never escape from their words. No matter if it’s right or wrong they still talks. Remember son, when you find a right path don’t you change your heart to it because of what people said. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF and rely on Allah!”
I hope we take this story as a lesson to us. In life, we should have our own stand that we hold tight. Be true to yourself and don’t care what others think of you, it’s you who need to trust yourself and have the guts to move on.

by~
-zarifa-

13 comments:

  1. ellOp zaf~
    it was a brilliant idea to translate this story into an english version...>.<
    yup...sometimes we need to have our own stand...dun really bother wether its wrong or right as long as we think that the decision we made is the best thing we could do...
    any decision will lead to a different outcomes and we are the one who have to face the situation, n not even accompanied by the person who gave their thought.....

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  2. I guess that's right. We can't let people change our beliefs no matter what. Some people don't stand up for themselves because they want to be accepted by their peers.
    As for me, I may have trouble making choices (fickle minded). But I'm certainly not a doormat. I have my opinions and I'm not afraid to voice them out. :)

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  3. yup.
    we need to have our own stand.
    but sometimes we like to think about other thought.
    thatz why we are in 'dilemma'.
    either stay wif our belief or their opinion.
    anyway,we should think both positive n negative.
    itz just about choices.

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  4. hii.
    what can be relate to the story is different people have different way of thinking or perceptions. and we cant really satisfy each of them by doing what they think is right. like zarifa said, we need to have our own stand and choose the best action to be taken instead of listening to others.

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  5. hiiii,ifaaaa....

    your article make me thinking about something...
    the article is right...
    no matter what we done, everyone will 'question' it include myself...
    sometimes i will look what the people do and think that they do is wrong...
    but no matter we do, just believe yourselves..
    that is the most important...

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  6. hi ifa..

    nice post..
    i agree with you..we must be true to ourself..
    i will let it out if i don't like someone..
    i don't care if people can't accept what i say..i just wanna be true..

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  7. assalamualaikum..
    hye zarifa....
    what i can that sometimes we need to have our own stand.....
    no matter what we done, we must do in the right situation.....

    to the oters people don't to be the "busy body"..
    owkae....that all.....

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  8. assalamualaikum...

    nice post...
    like mimah, we need to have our own stand...
    we must don't care what other people say about what we do..

    wassalam...

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  9. holaA~

    1st i want to say..
    people easy to change their way of thinking is people that cannot stand by their ownself..
    and they will fall down one day..

    daA~

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  10. salam guys...

    yeah!!, this is my first time i read this story in english version.
    congrates to u ifa...(bravoo..bravooo..)

    thats true that we should have our own stand no matter what people will say. as we know that people never stop from talking about others until their's eyes shut down forever, right.
    so, my advice is just think the best and do it with full of our confidence because what we do will reflect back to us....bye

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  11. salam...

    huk3...
    i'm the one 'silent' person..
    [xreti nak komen org]
    but,
    i hate[nyampah] the person [bdk busy body!]
    ...

    conclusion
    ~~ person who 'mulut tempayan' n busy body...
    just ignore them said..

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  12. hai...
    i've heard this story before n it's true that no matter what we do, people will talk..so just do whatever that you think is right..ok
    bye

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  13. good story.

    but try to look at broader perspective.
    sometimes we need to listen to what other people said about our doings or deeds, as sometimes we tend to make mistakes or do wrong things in our daily life. so, if u'r making a mistakes n still ignoring people's said/ advices or opinion..

    that is just wrong man.

    so be at the right path.

    (bkn b'dasarkn cite ni ek)

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