Sunday, January 25, 2009

a husband, father, and an army..

Hye ppl! This will be the first post of the entries ;) I hope everybody enjoy it.

I heard in the news about how a husband and also a father did something really really bad to his wife and daughter because of some stupid SMS thing. The story goes like this:

There was this couple with a cute little baby. They lived happily until one day, the husband got very mad with his wife because of an SMS where he tought his wife was cheating on him. He got really angry and stabbed her wife on the thigh and then grabbed his daughter and threw that poor child into a garbage can. After that, he returned home. Maybe he felt sorry for his ’beloved’ and then sent her to the hospital. At the hospital he suddenly remembered about the child that he threw away. Then he rushed to the garbage can but there was no signs of his child. Apparently, when he threw the child away someone saw him and after he left, that person took the baby and did a police report. Since that guy did manage to jot down his car`s registration number, the police went to the husband. The husband was charged in court and the case is still pending.

What amazes me is that this so-called husband and father is also an army personnel who is supposed to be someone who will defend the country in times of needs. But can he really defend our country when he cannot possibly took a good care of his family and how should this kind of human being be punished for what he had done?

I dont know about the guys but girls, do you want this kind of person to be your future huband? Well, not me!

26 comments:

  1. wow!!
    I have not expected what happen to that child while being dumped into the garbage. Must be she will be in traumatic disorder after being hurt by her own father. Or, she was just a little child that only able to cry for anything that put her through. Pity her. Luckily she was found by a kind man.
    I think maybe the crisis occured before the sms itself. Who knows maybe after the father noticed changes of his wife and lead him to investigate until he found the truth through sms. The army a.k.a the father cannot control his anger towards his wife.That is why the baby became the prey of father’s revenge. Why don’t the wife only get the “outcomes” of the things that she create..?

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  2. assalamualaikum...
    congratulation!!!you the first post...

    emm...interesting story...
    i agree what hamimah say...
    we need to investigate before take action what will happen...

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  3. what can i say is,
    eeUuw~
    thats sucks~
    i dont want that kind of person to be my hubby too...
    [selisih malaikat 44.hegEge]
    btw,
    nice layout.
    and this song is absolutely amazing!

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  4. assalamualaikum...
    here we are...
    our own blog...
    back to the story...
    for me, the husband just being jealous and mad but the way he shows his feeling is just not right...
    i hope the baby will be fine and the mother will survive with the baby, or maybe find the new better husband...
    last but not least...
    good job yan ira...wakaka...
    but the pink is just you...ngeng...
    that's all...wassalam...

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  5. what a husband @ dad.
    but still, the wife shouldn't be SMSing with other guys. that's very BAD.
    there MUST be some other story BEHIND this story.

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  6. god, can't believe that really happened. poor child. seriously, the guy's CRAZY! i think the police should take serious action against the guy, don't you think? i mean a sane person would not even think of throwing his/her baby into a garbage bin. he should have been more rational instead of taking out his anger on his wife and baby. the wife might have created the problem but still he should not have put an innocent baby's life in danger. that is such an irresponsible thing to do. anyway, the wife should put a restraining order against the guy. cuz if he has an anger like that, i'm pretty sure he will hurt the wife and baby again.

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  7. i am agree with tira.there must be some other story.but i think the creator of this problem is the guy who sms with the married woman.actually i don't know who started the sms.hehe..but if the woman started the sms,he shouldn't reply and just ignore her.and one more thing is what is wrong with the husband.he is mature enough to think in making any actions.with the actions he did people might think that he is silly and crazy.don't he feel ashame??..lastly nice work yan!!!

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  8. salam..
    for me, this story is so nice and full with moral values...
    as a wife, she must obey to her husband and dont sms with other guys.
    it let her husband feel so jelous...
    but, as a husband, he must think carefully before done anything...
    lastly, good job YAN!!

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  9. suspicious and jealousy can endangered someone's feeling. It can also lead someone to be a criminal even if that person is highly educated. In my opinion of this guy, he should undergo a counseling teraphy or a physchiatric to overcome his problem...

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  10. wahaha..
    congratz 2 yan 4 this sweet blog layout..
    haha..
    dad's work is 2 t8 k about his child..
    but this dad cannot control his feeling..
    he cannot call as a dad..
    iam pity 2 baby..
    but i will not pity to dad even he will be prison 4 his entire life..

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  11. holly sh*t..
    crazy husband,with crazy wife..
    poor little baby..
    uhu

    well
    the moral of the story is that,
    no woman no cry.
    ngeee.

    <3 this blogie yan..
    walllaaa..

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  12. asalamualaikum....
    actually i'm very sorry b'coz i'm late to post comment to u all...
    congrate to yan^zss coz create this blog to our dais2A member..for my opinion,both of them (husband & wife) are crazy.why should tht wife sms with other guy????? she already had her husband...she must give her attention to her husband and their child.. i will conclude this story like 'cinta 3 segi'...haha..like crazy la...
    that husband not think very well before do something..i hope my "lovely person" not like that.



    from violet90,ain..........

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  13. erm..
    well,obviously the husband shud trust his wife bfore jumped into conclusion..
    i thnk that a lesson to guys who always thght girls cnnt be trusted..
    -peace-

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  15. yeah i have read this story from the newspaper.. unexpected what had happened to this family.. both of them had done the wrong thing.. i agree with other who said that his wife should not sms to other guys.. but the husband also should think wisely.. what is his reason he threw his daugther into the garbage can??

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  16. ...
    moral of this story..
    both of them crazy..
    think before you do something...
    do not involved innocent people
    when you let out your anger...
    poor that baby~~

    no man no cry...
    no me he cry...
    wakaka~~

    don't trust antbody!!!

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  17. Hello students.
    Nice to hear from all of you. Izyan, good job! The news shows that people are capable to do all sorts of nasty things when they are angry. This occurs when you are unable to think rationally before you take the action. But can you actually think rationally when you are in the midst of your anger? Quite tough, right. Perhaps the father should be sent to the psychiatrist for treatment and undergo an anger management course to fix himself. My advice to all of you, use your judgement before you take any action because every action has a reaction. Cheers!

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  18. Assalamualikum...
    Its Very sad story..
    the farther failed to control
    his temper and it effect to people
    surround him..
    lovely wife and baby be the victim from his anger..
    For me the moral of the story
    we have to investigate every
    single thing that occur before we take an action..

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  19. wow, interesting story yan! i think both the father and mother are wrong. the mother should have remembered her status as a wife and she shouldn't have been messaging with other guys. on the other hand, the father should have been more mature and he should have just advised his wife. the baby shouldn't have been the victim of this argument. the father and mother should have taken care of the baby because the baby is a gift from God. i don't like this man who calls himself a father!!!

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  20. Eylow...
    I also had read about this news. It really unexpected. Nowdays, people cannot think wisely. If I not mistaken, the father regret with what was he doing after send his wife to hospital or police station. I not really sure where.
    Please control yourself and think wisely before doing something. I don't want someone that I love became like that guy, espeacially my father.
    Thanks to Allah my father not like that. I hope my future husband also not like that.

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  21. Assalamualaikum...
    Athiyah right,for me..eventhough you are in a lot of pressure,you should not take that as a reason for you to do such a bad things to your children or anyone else.Eventhough animals also love their children,right!so.. I think both of them have done such a bad thing especially to their children.Lastly,nice blog!!

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  22. Salam..this is a bad story for this family. We should take lesson from this story..the husband has right to jelous but he cannot do like that to his daugther and that was so cruel.The wife also wrong because sms with other guy even she has her own husband. I also agree with Atiqah there must have a story behind al this. That's all..bye

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  23. a'kum!! Hye, guys!! I never heard this kind of story before... can't espect there is a father like this in this world!!!! I fell sorry for the daugther coz have this kind of person to be her father. lastly, good job to u Yan.

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  24. lilies said....
    SAWADIKAPPP...

    a'ha, what a sad story!!!!!i think the husband maybe was woke up on the wrong side on the that day....
    i think, maybe many of us were angry with this crazy husband, right??? i'm also
    however, i also want to blame to the wife.
    this is because, without her STUPID action, all tis kind of STUPID + CRAZY thing will not came out, right????
    SO, WHO AGREE WITH ME, RAISE UP YOUR HAND PLEZZZZZ?????

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  25. olaaa...
    i think the mother also should be blame because she is the main cause for what happen.
    she also should safe the baby from the husband.
    tq.
    c u all later..

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  26. alow..i also had heard about this news..
    i hate the father's attitude..
    all guys dont follow father atitude..
    this man very crazy!!!!and very very very syupid you know...hehehe

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